Sunday, November 26, 2006

Living Like Trees: The Hindu and Buddhist Ideal of Sharing

Article of the Month - November 2006
By Nitin Kumar
Website: Exotic India
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Fielding Hall, a British official in nineteenth-century Burma, once asked for a bill at what he had taken to be a village restaurant, and found that he had been fed as a guest in a private house. Little did he know that the simple-minded folk were just practicing one of Buddhism's fundamental ethical imperatives - the gesture of unconditioned giving.

Indeed, the primary activity which a Buddhist learns to develop is unselfish sharing, which forms a basis for further moral and spiritual development. If the key to any religion is held in its stories, Buddhist literature, abounding in such narratives, gives ample evidence of the high esteem this particular trait is held in.

Dana or generosity is encouraged as an essential attitude, which is the best way of offsetting the human tendency of individual self-centeredness and attachment. It is also regarded as a basic form of renunciation, open to both - the layperson and the monk.

Thus says the ancient Buddhist Canon:

'Like a jar of water, when overturned, empties all its contents, never to receive them back, thus should one give away without regard to money, fame, one's progeny, or even our own body to anybody who approaches us with a wish list.' (Introduction to Jataka)

Throughout the Jataka Stories, the first injunction when any discourse is delivered is to give donations to the poor, food to guests and support and honor to holy men. In Hinduism too, the gift of food is considered especially virtuous because:

'Life is sustained by food and food is life, thus, to give food to others is like giving life to them.' (Mahabharata: 13.63.26)

The hospitality has to be all embracing, and the guest, whoever she or he may be, has to be welcomed with open arms:

Even if the lowliest of the low arrives as a guest, the householder should welcome him. (Mahabharata: 14.92)

In the timeless text, The Bhagavata Purana, an instructive episode is narrated where Krishna, playing with his famished friends, is addressed thus by the latter:

"O Krishna, like you have annihilated mighty demons tormenting us, so also save us from these pangs of hunger."

Krishna, ever the fulfiller of his devotees' needs, answered:

"Go to the nearby hall where learned Brahmins are performing a great ritual to attain heaven. Tell them that you have been sent by me and request them to give you some cooked rice."

Obeying the instructions, the young lads went over to the hermitage, prostrated them before the priests and requested:

"Venerable saints, we are the servants of Lord Krishna who is playing with us nearby. He is now hungry and has asked us to seek food from you - the true knowers of Dharma."

Ignorantly engaged in toilsome rituals and acts of everyday life, yet vainglorious of their textual wisdom, the Brahmins, though they heard the solicitations of the lord, who out of Grace send his friends for food to them, did not heed to their needs.

Disappointed, they reported what had happened to Krishna, who laughing out aloud said: "Now go to the affectionate wives of these Brahmins and ask the same of them. They will definitely feed you to your heart's content."

To those pious women the lads respectfully submitted: "Salutations to you virtuous ladies. We have been deputed by Lord Krishna to seek food for our hungry group."

No sooner had they heard that the lord was so near, giving them an opportunity to fulfill his and his followers' hunger, the Brahmin women immediately gathered sumptuous food in large vessels and like rivers rushing towards the ocean, eagerly reached out to Krishna welcoming him through the gates of their eyes, establishing him into their hearts.

Krishna first made his friends feast on the food and only afterwards did he partake it himself.

Later, the saints, remembering their uncharitable behavior, lamented: "Alas, we have disregarded the lord who has taken the form of a human being. All our knowledge, vows and pure birth are useless, because due to pride, we were unable to recognize the divinity in humanity." (Bhagavata Purana: 10.23)

This simple narrative has a profound implication, alerting us to the realization that if we are lucky enough to have somebody needful at our threshold, it is perhaps god himself who has condescended to bless us. Thus is it said:

'With a guest come all the gods. If a guest is honored, so are they; if he goes away disappointed, they are disappointed too.' (Mahabharata: 14.92)

Significantly, the word used for guest in Sanskrit is 'atithi', 'tithi' meaning date and the prefix 'a' negating it. Therefore, one who arrives unexpectedly without prior date or appointment is the guest extolled here:

'An athithi is an occasion for heaven, and all gods are satisfied when he is satisfied.' (Mahabharata: 14.92)

The Bhagavad Gita calls such an unsolicited opportunity to perform one's duty (made available by chance and not effort), a direct gateway to heaven (2.32).

Our experience of the world is one of interdependence, and we do not exist as isolated elements but are related to each other as many strands of a fabric. Hindu and Buddhist texts provide structures through which trustworthy views of this experience can be developed, recognizing that such interdependence is not just of the nature of the body, but at a deeper level, of human social life. Such an outlook involves not only accommodation, but also slowly but steadily cultivates in us the ideal of renunciation, defined as the abandonment of material things over to someone else, and which is a necessary first step towards Nirvana or Moksha.

In fact, the quality of giving is one of the virtues perfected over numerous lifetimes by Buddha in his bodhisattva phase, before the final culmination into Nirvana, after he has given up all attachment. This is symbolized by the sacrifice of his own body when he has nothing else to offer an unexpected guest. In the Jataka Tale entitled 'Shasha Jataka' (story no. 316), the Buddha is born as a rabbit, and unable to present any other food to a Brahmin come home, roasted himself in a fire. Later of course, it turns out that his guest is but god testing his resolve.

A similar message is given by the story of King Shibi in the Jataka Mala, who having given away all his wealth, was still moved enough by small insects hovering around him, and inflicted several wounds on his body to feed the mosquitoes. In another narrative from the same text, the bodhisattva throws himself in front of a hungry tigress, who, otherwise, was on the verge of consuming her own cubs. This is however not the only instance of the Buddha-To-Be sacrificing his physical body partly or fully and numerous tales abound in Buddhist Canonical literature illustrating this theme.

In the ancient Samadhiraja-Sutra, Buddha's principal disciple Ananda asks how a bodhisattva can cheerfully suffer the loss of his limbs etc and not feel any pain when he mutilates himself for the good of others.

The Buddha explained that intense compassion for mankind and the love of Bodhi (spiritual awakening), sustain and inspire a bodhisattva towards heroism, just as worldly men are inclined to enjoy sensual pleasures even when their bodies are burning with fever.

Before being so advanced spiritually so as to make these supreme sacrifices, the bodhisattva, in many of his live prior to Buddhahood, continued to cultivate the perfection (paramita) of Dana, experiencing greater pleasure in giving than those receiving it. When the action of giving is thus internalized in so profound a manner, becoming almost one's second, nay primary nature, Krishna compares such unselfish magnanimity with the inspiring life of trees:

"Have a look at these great blessed trees, who live only for the welfare of others, themselves facing the severity of stormy winds, heavy showers, heat and snow, all the while protecting us from them. The birth of trees is the most blessed in the world, as they contribute unreservedly to the well being of all creatures. Just as no needy person ever returns disappointed from the house of a benevolent individual, similarly do these trees do for those who approach them for shelter. All of their many parts - leaves, flowers, fruits, shadow, roots, bark, wood and fragrance, are useful to others. Indeed, there are many who live on this earth, but the birth of only those is successful, who, as far as possible, through their wealth, intellect, speech and lives, engage in acts conducive to the welfare of others." (Bhagavata Purana 10.22.32 - 35)

The Mahabharata asks us to embrace even one perceived to be an enemy, should he arrive at our threshold: 'Should even one's enemy arrive at the doorstep, he should be attended upon with respect. A tree does not withdraw its cooling shade even from the one who has come to cut it.'

The Bodhichariyavatara, a classic in the world's religious literature, composed by the monk Shantideva (AD 685-763), describes in verse form the various steps to be taken by the bodhisattva on the path to Buddhahood.

It calls the bodhisattva as one without attachment to specific individuals, but who perceives all creatures with benevolence like a father his son. There is a beautiful passage in the Bhagavata Purana complementing the above ideal:

Man has right over only that much wealth as is enough to satisfy his hunger. He who lays a claim on the surplus is a thief and deserves punishment. One should look upon beasts, camels, donkeys, monkeys, rats, creatures who crawl on the earth (serpents etc), birds and mosquitoes like one's own sons, and these should therefore not be driven out of the house or fields if they enter and begin to eat, for what indeed is the difference between them and his sons? (7.14.8 - 9)

This is perhaps akin to Mahatma Gandhi's concept of trusteeship, where anyone with wealth in excess of his basic needs realizes himself to be only a trustee of his prosperity, and who understands that his continuation in the office depends only on his overseeing that it is judiciously shared amongst all shareholders.

The Bodhichariyavatara takes even a deeper perspective, laying special emphasis on placing oneself in the position of others (par-atma-parivartana), in order to promote selflessness (an-atman) and compassion (karuna): 'Whoever wishes for salvation should practice the supreme mystery - the exchanging of himself and the other.' (8.120)

Governed by this high ideal, such selfless giving does not expect anything in return. It is perhaps only a way of saying thanks to the one god who has created us all in equality. According to Krishna, a sharing which wants its price is but mere shop keeping:

"Those who love only when loved, their whole enterprise is based on selfishness. It is only giving and taking. It is nor a joining of hearts, neither Dharma. This love is just for self-interest and nothing else. Those who show affection to even those who do not reciprocate their love are like parents, full of karuna. Here lies pure and spotless Dharma." (Bhagavata Purana 10.32.17 - 18)

What all these instances suggest is that the sense of giving is not mere alms giving or charity, but a sharing of what one has been given, in the awareness that one's life is connected with other beings. Hospitality is one such expression of this realization, beyond mere ritual etiquette:

Even if he diligently studies the Veda day after day, but fails to welcome his guest, then the life of such a Brahmin is in vain. If one wishes to reap the fruits of ritual rites, then let one attend upon a guest who arrives hungry and thirsty at his doorstep with food and respect. (Mahabharata: 14.92)

Equally important with the act of giving is the attitude, the feeling with which the offerings are made. The word used for ritual giving in Sanskrit, is 'Dana', whose meanings are sharing, communicating, imparting, paying back (as a debt), restoring, and adding to. The ancient tradition of holistic healing, Ayurveda, speaks of four kinds of defects which can afflict cooked food:

1). The Defect of Time (Kala Dosha) - The food that has been kept for too long.

2). The Defect of Flavor (Rasa Dosha) - That which has lost its taste.

3). The Defect of Company (Samsarga Dosha): Touched by unclean hands, or in which some insect has fallen

4). The Defect of Sentiment (Bhava Dosha) - That which is offered with ill grace or without affection. Such a food is not food, it is poison and the worst out of the four categories.

In Buddhist Ethics too, the overall focus is on the psychological aspects of an action, that is, on the intention or volition (chetana) behind it. The Kathavatthu of the Pali Canon holds that Dana is not only the act of giving and gift itself, but the mental state of liberality as well. Thus it is not the absolute size of the gift that is noteworthy, but its proportion out of one's own stock, that characterizes the 'abundance' of a gift.

The story of King Rantideva illustrates one such episode, where this monarch, having given away all his wealth, fell on to days of hardship, and had to go even without water for a stretch of forty-eight days. However, on the morning of the forty-ninth, he managed to get a meal of rice cooked in butter. As soon as the family sat down to break their fast, a Brahmin guest arrived, and the family, visualizing god in everything, received him with reverence and gave him a share. Before they could partake of the remaining food, another stranger, this time a Shudra, knocked at their door. He was also lovingly given a portion of the meal. After him came a stranger with his dogs, requesting to be fed along with his hounds. The householder dutifully bowed before the god arrived in the form of the dogs and their master. Lastly, only water having remained, that too was asked by for by a parched Chandala (keeper of funeral grounds). King Rantideva, observing the latter's plight said: I do not seek from The Almighty Lord any kind of special powers. I would rather prefer to dwell in all beings and undergo their sufferings myself, relieving them of their miseries. By offering water to this unfortunate person, ally my thirst, exhaustion, distress and hunger have been quenched." Later, the family was blessed with a vision (darshan) of the lord himself, who extolled their sacrifice, which consisted of all they possessed.

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Monday, November 20, 2006

Cooking for Vegetarians at Thanksgiving

By Suzy Morrison

Many people worry about having vegetarian guests over for Thanksgiving, especially as the Thanksgiving dinner is a traditional meat eater’s feast.

If you’re hosting Thanksgiving at your house this year remember that most vegetarians do not need a ‘meat equivalent’ at Thanksgiving. Traditionally, Thanksgiving has been mostly about the food, but more importantly it’s about families, friends, togetherness, happiness and peace.

If this is your first time hosting a vegetarian for Thanksgiving or if you have just recently become a vegetarian yourself, then read these 10 tips for ensuring that your vegetarian guests, and you as host, will be thankful for this Thanksgiving:

(1) Be sure to check exactly what your vegetarian guest does and does not eat. Some vegetarians are happy to eat animal products such as milk and eggs, whereas others are not.

(2) Keep cooking utensils separate to prevent "cross-contamination" between meat foods and vegetarian foods – this is something that many non vegetarians overlook, but something which is very important to vegetarians.

(3) Bake a portion of stuffing outside of the turkey.

(4) Make a small portion of vegetarian gravy.

(5) Check the labels of the food you are preparing for the vegetarian guests to ensure that they do not contain any less obvious meat products e.g. gelatin.

(6) Prepare lots of side dishes of vegetables such as sweet potatoes, carrots, squash, green beans and so on, but leave them plain.

(7) Use vegetable oils instead of animal fats for frying, and vegetable shortening like Crisco for pie crust.

(8) Offer plenty of breads, beverages, fresh fruits, and non-gelatin desserts, which are suitable without modification for most vegetarians.

(9) Invite your vegetarian guest to prepare a “Tofurky” or vegetarian ‘turkey equivalent’ entrĂ©e to share with you the rest of your guests, or if you’re hosting Thanksgiving, prepare a small one. Your meat-eating guests might just be curious enough to want to try it!

(10) Ask your vegetarian guest for some tips or recipes to complement their vegetarian choice. You may even find that your guest is happy to help out in the kitchen or bring a dish that they have prepared themselves. You shouldn’t think that a dish from home as an insult to your cooking; see it as a desire to share traditions at Thanksgiving. Even meat-eating homes can benefit from a healthy vegetarian recipe.

For more vegetarian tips, ideas and recipes visit the Eating Vegetarian site or the Becoming Vegetarian blog.

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Sunday, November 05, 2006

Astro-Noetics November Astrology Forecast

By Astrologer Bill Streett
Website: www.astro-noetics.com


Sun, Mars, Venus triple conjunction
Saturn opposite Neptune
Venus conjunct Jupiter
Saturn trine Pluto
Saturn square Mars
Station of Uranus


Astrologically speaking, November can be seen as a continuation of October, as a multiple planet conjunction continues in the sign of Scorpio. Throughout the first half of November, five planets commingle in the sign of intensity, passion, and depth. With such an emphasis on Scorpio in October and November, the archetypal patterns call for significant transformation. Although a nebulous word that can connate many things, transformation in this case suggests a rapid modification of one's condition.

Within physics, a substance can only undergo a change of state under extreme variation in the outer environment. Thus, with such a concentration of energy in Scorpio through Mid-November, powerful and forceful outer conditions may associate with a significant internal change: a major adjustment in attitude, a noticeable transformation in approach, or simply a quick revolution in frame of reference. Scorpio, and its related symbols of Pluto and the Eighth House, connotes the most intense and dramatic of changes. Not unlike the gateways that administer birth and death, these astrological symbols can all portend very noticeable and acute change. What is often remarkable about an astrological emphasis on Scorpio (and its astrological analogues) is the rapidity of change. With so much focus on Scorpio currently, it is not unlikely that the major topics of "change of state" birth, sex, and death will be in the air, so to speak.

The intensity of Scorpio is only augmented by Saturn's major alignments to both Neptune and Pluto. As the agents of vast, cosmic change, Neptune and Pluto are the markers in astrology for the greatest and most enduring renovations. With Saturn in alignment to these planets, the sixth planet from the Sun can both act to retard change and restrain evolutionary advancement from occurring, but, somewhat paradoxically, Saturn can also create the container necessary for subsequent growth to occur. Thus, along with the emphasis in Scorpio, this constellation of alignments can enforce profound transformation. There is also a noticeable heaviness with this energy, a seriousness that seems to pervade the backdrop of events.

Focusing solely on the Saturn-Neptune opposition now, it is apparent, that, after many months of this opposition being in effect, one of the main expressions of this configuration is scandal. The quantity of cover-ups of alleged wrongdoings and transgressions has truly been staggering. The attendant feelings of being conned, duped, and scammed all seem to be a part of the whole Saturn-Neptune gestalt, for it is during these alignments that enchanting and blinding illusions, the arguably negative side of Neptune gets the "reality check-in" that is so notoriously affiliated with Saturn. It becomes quite difficult to hide with smoke and mirrors any and all chimeras and "mayic sheathing" that distorts, bends, and contorts truth under such an alignment.

In a larger sense, this Saturn-Neptune alignment has an effect on consciousness in general and can therefore be considered a psycho-spiritual test. If the current scandals that are occurring in the main drama of life are but a macrocosm of what we individually endure, we all in some way must face difficult truths and subtle deceptions during this time.

Under Saturn-Neptune alignments, we perceive reality (or more accurately, our condition) in a more sober and striking light. The captivating psychological projections that can kindle a romance begin to dampen. Subtle self deceptions we tell our self about our daily life, our financial situation, work life, and relationships begin to slip away. Art, entertainment, and social gatherings lose their ability to entrance, enchant, and lure. Saturn-Neptune alignments can turn something difficult to define our stream of consciousness, our subjective experience, our interiority into a stark and cold picture show, a film of life with little magic, vitality and excitement.

In this manner, Saturn aspects are tests, and with Saturn-Neptune alignments, the tests are usually internal, quiet, hidden from view, but a major challenge nonetheless-a challenge of faith.

Under a Saturn-Neptune alignment, Like Dante in the Divine Comedy, we loose ourselves in a dark forest, only to come upon a sign which states, "Abandon All hope, Ye Who Enter Here." If we succumb to the dictates of the sign, we become cynical, bitter, and corrosively pungent in outlook. However, as a challenge and test, the Saturn-Neptune alignment can be a motivator to keep faith and hope very much alive, even when our perceptions and projections can very much run dry.

Bill Streett
Website: www.astro-noetics.com

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Saturday, November 04, 2006

Stepping Stones #7: Soul Mates – When Love Triangles Emerge

By Greg Gourdian
Web Blog: http://tangledintime.blogspot.com/


We sometimes encounter someone special in our life that we may consider to be our soul mate, someone with whom we feel we share a deep connection not only in this life but in other incarnations as well. But how does that special person fit into our lives? We may often be in a committed relationship when a soul mate appears in our life. We may then become torn between two very special relationships -- with our current partner and with our soul mate.

Often we may feel that our current partner in life is our soul mate and when our partner agrees, our relationship with them may often explore extraordinary depths. Sometimes our partner may not recognize this special relationship exists even though we ourselves may be convinced we have known our beloved partner through many different incarnations; any exploration of these special depths to our relationship may then be stymied by our partner’s denial.

Sometimes we may find ourselves in a committed relationship, only to rediscover a soul mate in someone other than our current partner. The extraordinary connection we feel when we rediscover a soul mate will often put us in a terrible position; we feel we must choose between two lovers and we may seriously consider abandoning a good, loving, nurturing relationship with a devoted, caring partner in favor of the intensely intoxicating relationship we desire with our newly rediscovered soul mate. Or, even if we remain devoted to our current partner, we may find our committed relationship in peril if our committed partner becomes jealous or our newly rediscovered soul mate asks us to forsake our committed partner.

While some people believe we may only have one soul mate, many of us recognize that we may have many soul mates, so it may be possible that we share a committed relationship to one soul mate when we rediscover another soul mate, and the appearance of this newly rediscovered soul mate then threatens the stability of our relationship to our current partner. We may feel forced to choose between our two special loves and the distress of considering abandoning someone we love is a terrible thing to endure.

Whether our current partner agrees they are our soul mate or not, or even if our current partner is not one of our soul mates, it seems very wrong to break up with them in favor of a soul mate we have recently rediscovered. We risk hurting both ourselves and our partners when we consider leaving a committed relationship for someone else. We may ultimately rediscover many soul mates throughout this incarnation of our lives and may be faced with this dilemma over and over again, causing ourselves, our partners, and our newest soul mates deep distress each time.

So, while we my be sorely tempted to fly into the arms of a newly rediscovered soul mate, in spite of the damage we may do to our current partnership, we should reflect upon what our soul mates roles may be in our lives. It may be the case that they are not here to be our lover in this lifetime but maybe to be a friend; their presence need not threaten our current committed partnership.

Or, it may be the case that we find ourselves in an agreeable triangle where each partner recognizes the added value of the other partners, and each partner reaps even more love than before, and where no partner feels threatened by the relationship of the other two. It may even be the case that we will try to keep the newly rediscovered soul mate a secret from our committed partner and try to have an illicit affair.

Illicit affairs rarely remain secret; the secret partner may want to break up the committed relationship to have the middle partner exclusively to themselves. The middle partner may tell their committed partner about their affair to hurt them in a fit of pique. Or the middle partner may unconsciously sabotage both relationships due to unresolved feelings of guilt. There are many reasons why a secret affair will fail to remain secret. The consequences of the affair once revealed can often be worse than had the middle partner openly consulted with their committed partner about their feelings and desires and tried to reach a compromise of some sort with them.

In such circumstances the middle partner’s committed partner may strive to maintain the sanctity of their relationship, or they may recognize the pain they cause their partner by denying them the pleasure of the love of their newly rediscovered soul mate. By allowing their partner to have an affair, they may risk losing their partner, but the injury to their relationship by denying their partner to explore this new love may be even more risky to the committed relationship in the long run.

Both partners should strive to understand the other partner’s needs and find a way to compromise successfully. Ultimately we must always be true to ourselves. A partner who denies their partner’s needs in this regard risks losing their relationship -- whether it is the middle partner or their committed partner whose essential needs are left unmet. In this manner the possibility of a triangle is explored and possibly entered into. In such triangles there is often a stronger bond created between the members because the middle partner becomes more ecstatic and loving because they are free to explore their hearts desires without condemnation from either partner.

However, too often, we simply are not able to accept the presence of another partner in our relationship and we may then try to throttle our partner’s love for their other partner rather than allow them to explore this new love in their life. I recommend that the newly discovered soul mate carefully reinforce the committed relationship their soul mate is in and that they do their best to honor their partner’s needs without putting themselves first.

When the committed relationship is secure, the middle partner is freer to consider how they will love their newly rediscovered soul mate and possibly make room in their life for them to be their lover. When the newly discovered soul mate undermines the committed relationship of their partner, they risk losing the love of the middle partner because their partner is stressed and resentful of the hurt they feel which then causes them to turn away from their newly discovered soul mate.

In both instances, the partners of the middle partner have more to gain by permissiveness and supportiveness of their partner’s other relationship than they will gain by denying their partner the opportunity to love whole heartedly and painlessly. All of the partner’s can win this way, whereas denial causes everyone to be hurt by the love they feel.

What a terrible thing to do to love, to limit it and turn it into something painful.

And of course, by exploring the love openly the partners may mutually decide that one relationship or the other is best for the middle partner and agree to love the middle partner by allowing them their free choice, if a choice must be made.

So our soul mates may have several roles in our lives, platonically or passionately, and the key to the success of our relationships in such triangles is to allow love to exist to its fullest extent for everyone involved. We should love one another openly and freely and share love sweetly so that our love may be painless and more fulfilling for everyone involved. We should seek to give each other their freedom to love so that the love is never sullied by petty limitations or the pain of making terrible choices.

With soul mates as with all others whom we love, if we love someone then let them go; if they love us they will return.

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BIO:
Author Greg Gourdian has worked with the general public as a psychic reader for a little over four years from 1981 to 1986. Much of his written work is channeled, although he will admit that he has no idea who many of the sources for his channeled work may be. He has many strange tales to tell regarding his spiritual journey and he attempts to tell his tales in a humorous or entertaining manner. While not an accredited teacher, Greg has taught classes in psychology, sociology, metaphysics and parapsychology.
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